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A career is a mythical thing in many ways. It’s something you dream about and don’t realize you have it even when you’re established. Only once somebody points it out do you feel validated to say, “I have a career.”
Of course, the idea that other peoples’ perceptions drive your career is a myth. Strangers have no bearing on your success. Unfortunately, this isn’t the anomaly that proves the rule. There are tons of falsehoods that people starting or stuck in a rut believe, encouraging them to make costly mistakes.
If you don’t want to be that person, here are four big myths to stop believing right now.
“X” Is Innate
“X” usually stands for leadership, but it’s interchangeable for a host of different words. The reality is that you can learn pretty much any skill you want to, including leadership. Yes, some people are naturally good at organizing projects and delegating jobs to others while maintaining a high level of charisma. You may not have it now, but an online project management graduate certificate or business management degree will teach you the core principles and best practices. As long as you are willing to soak up the information and act on it, you will grow as a leader.
“I Can’t Take A Pay Cut”
Why not? Putting money first is tempting, especially if you have a lifestyle that you’ve worked hard for and must provide for a family. However, your salary may stay at the same rate for the next ten years if you don’t make a change. By that time, inflation and career burnout will make you reflect on missed opportunities and leave you suffering from guilt. You have to consider money when making a career move, yet if the amount is small, it probably won’t make a massive difference. Of course, a pay cut could leave you happier and offer perspective.
“I Need A Steady Job”
A steady job is a lot of things, and they’re not all bad. Yet, it’s a one-size-fits-all term that may not be suitable for your career goals or personality type. Many people can’t stand an office environment, but they do it anyway because they assume it’s the right move. It isn’t. Freelancing or being self-employed may be challenging at times since your salary isn’t guaranteed, but it will be suitable to your lifestyle, and it’ll open doors to different opportunities while teaching you the importance of grafting.
“I Have To Make $ By X”
Finally, there is the myth that you need to make a certain amount of money by the time you’re thirty. Not only is it harmful as people move at different speeds, but it’s an unhealthy amount of pressure to put on your shoulders. Experiencing stress is inevitable if your goal is to boost your income by a figure that may not be realistic. Plus, it convinces you to place your wage over everything else, which is unhealthy.
Set career targets, yet be careful of prioritizing money and creating a timeline.